My experience in my church regarding change has been toxic. “We don’t need to change nothing. It’s been like this so let it alone!” This was endless and problematic. I feel we all need to accept the fact that we all need help for our mental issues . According to Mental Health America, a notable research group, 46% of all Americans will meet the criteria for a diagnosable mental health condition sometime in their lives. Recognize you may have a problem and seek help. Accept change and move forward. Therapy is not a bad word.